Outline:
1. What the NDIS Means by Informal Supports
2. When the Assumptions Stop Reflecting Reality
3. What Families Need to Know
4. How This Affects Your Funded Supports
5. Preparing for Your Next Planning Meeting
6. You Have the Right to Accurate Planning
If you have family members or friends who help you with everyday tasks, the NDIS considers them informal supports. And this consideration matters, because informal support affects how your plan is built and how much funding you receive.
Many participants and families do not fully understand this until they sit in a planning meeting and realise that the help provided by a parent, partner, or sibling has already been factored into what the NDIS will fund.
This article explains what informal support means in the context of the NDIS, how they influence your plan, and what you can do when the assumptions being made no longer reflect your reality.
The NDIS defines informal support as the assistance provided by family members, friends, neighbours, or community members that is unpaid and given freely as part of a natural relationship. This includes things like a parent helping their adult child to get ready in the morning, a partner driving someone to medical appointments, or a sibling helping with grocery shopping.
The NDIS expects that informal support will continue to play a role in a participant’s life, and it builds its funding decisions around that expectation. When a planner assesses your reasonable and necessary supports, they are not just looking at what you need. They are looking at what you already have access to through the people around you.
This is not inherently wrong. The NDIS was designed to work alongside natural support networks, not to replace them entirely. But the way that principle is applied in practice can create real problems for families who are already stretched, who are ageing, who have their own health needs, or who simply cannot sustain the level of support the NDIS assumes they are providing.
When the Assumptions Stop Reflecting Reality
Informal support arrangements change. A parent who has been providing daily personal care for years may develop a health condition that limits what they can do. A partner who has been the primary carer may return to work full time. A sibling who has been involved may move interstate. Family dynamics shift, and so does capacity.
When those changes happen, the NDIS does not automatically adjust your plan. Your plan will continue to reflect the informal supports that was in place at the time it was written, until you tell the NDIS that something has changed.
If your informal support arrangements have changed significantly, you can request an unscheduled plan review. You will need to explain what has changed and provide evidence where possible, such as a letter from a specialist or a statutory declaration from a family member describing why they can no longer provide the same level of support.
Worth knowing: Carers have their own rights under the NDIS framework. If the person providing your informal support is experiencing carer fatigue, a health issue, or a significant change in their own circumstances, that information is relevant to your plan and can be used to support a review request. Document it and raise it.
What Families Need to Know
If you are a family member providing informal support to a participant, your role is recognised in the NDIS framework, but it is not always protected. The NDIS can assume you will continue to provide support indefinitely unless you or the participant clearly communicates otherwise.
It is important to be honest during planning meetings about what you can and cannot sustainably provide. If you are providing personal care, transport, or domestic assistance at a level that is affecting your own health, employment, or quality of life, that needs to be part of the conversation. It is not about stepping back from your family members. It is about making sure the plan reflects what is actually sustainable over the long term.
Be specific about what you do and how long it takes. Vague descriptions like “I help out a lot” are easy for a planner to interpret generously in the NDIS’s favour. Specific descriptions like “I provide approximately 14 hours of personal care per week, including showering, dressing, and meal preparation” are much harder to set aside when building a plan.
How This Affects Your Funded Supports
The way informal supports are factored into your plan can affect several areas of your funding. In Core Supports, particularly Assistance with Daily Life and Assistance with Social and Community Participation, planners may reduce funded hours if they believe informal supports are covering some of that need. In Capacity Building, if family members are seen as helping with a skill-building role, that may affect what is funded for therapy or support coordination.
This does not mean informal supports are a bad thing, or that having a strong family network will always reduce your funding. It means the information you provide during your planning meeting matters enormously. The more clearly you can describe the boundaries of informal support and what happens when those supports are not available, the more accurately your plan will reflect your actual needs.
Preparing for Your Next Planning Meeting
Before your next planning meeting or review, take some time to document your informal supports honestly and in detail. Write down who provides what, how often, for how long, and whether that is sustainable going forward. If anything has changed since your last plan, note that clearly.
If you have a support coordinator, ask them to help you frame this information in a way that clearly communicates the boundaries of informal support without minimising the role your family plays. The goal is accuracy, not exaggeration in either direction.
If you disagree with how the NDIS has factored informal supports into your current plan, you have the right to request an internal review of that decision. A disability advocate can help you prepare for that process. Your plan manager can also help you understand whether your current funding reflects your stated support needs and flag any areas where there may be a gap.
You Have the Right to Accurate Planning
The NDIS is designed to fund what is reasonable and necessary for your disability-related support needs. Informal supports are part of that picture, but they are not a replacement for funded supports where a genuine need exists. You have the right to a plan that reflects your real situation, not an idealised version of what your family can provide.
If the assumptions being made about your informal supports no longer hold, or never did, say so clearly and early. Document it. Ask for a review. Bring evidence. The system is not always easy to navigate, but there are people and processes in place to help you get the right outcome.